"Since my divorce, I've been very picky about who I have sex with," said Piper, a 43-year-old business owner who was born in Indiana and now lives in Florida. "At first, I went wild. I think I fucked 15 different men the first month after my divorce. But now, I'll find a guy, fuck him for a few weeks, then find another, fuck him for a few weeks, and so on. I like it a lot better that way. The first time with a man is always great, but once you get to know each other, it's even better. But then, inevitably, it gets boring. I get out before it gets boring." And then, she gets someone else in! Works for us.

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